When a relationship ends, it can feel as though the ground has shifted beneath you. Whether the relationship ended through an affair, divorce, separation, or simply growing apart, many men are surprised by how deeply it affects them.

You may be coping on the outside while feeling confused, rejected, angry, or quietly overwhelmed inside. It’s common to feel pressure to “get on with it” and deal with things alone, even when you’re struggling emotionally.

I offer relationship breakdown counselling for men in Haslemere and Farnham who are finding it difficult to make sense of a relationship ending.

How counselling can help

I work integratively and in a person-centred way, adapting my approach to suit you as an individual. Counselling offers a calm, confidential space where you can talk openly without judgement or pressure to have everything worked out.

Counselling can support you to:

• Process grief, anger, or emotional shock
• Talk about affairs, betrayal, or growing apart
• Rebuild confidence and sense of self
• Understand patterns in relationships
• Feel steadier and more grounded again

My approach

I offer a non-judgmental, supportive space where you can speak honestly at your own pace. My role is not to analyse or fix you, but to help you explore what this relationship has meant to you and how you want to move forward.

Practical details

I offer relationship breakdown counselling for men in Haslemere and Farnham, as well as online sessions. Counselling can be short-term or open-ended, depending on what feels right for you.

You may also wish to explore:

• Divorce and Separation Counselling
• Relationship Breakdown Counselling for Women

If you’re struggling after a relationship ends and would like support, please get in touch.